"If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I'm about to do today?"
- Steve Jobs
I learned a lot of valuable lessons when I first became a
manager. Books kept me motivated and informed and articles allowed me to adjust
and learn. I used to lead team meetings on Mondays and prepared slides and
agendas during weekends so that I can get the team ready for the week. I wanted
to build a positive culture with the team and during our meeting so I began to
implement a few things that I thought would assist with my objective. What was
my great idea? It was one simple question.
I was shockingly stumped when I asked the group this one
simple question and no one was able to answer me. For two Mondays in a row the group
had difficulty answering my question and I realized that this was something
most people have difficulty answering.
What was the simple question I asked? It was this question:
What three things did you accomplish last week? That was it. I wanted to know
three accomplishments from each individual. I wanted to create a culture where
we discussed things that we’re proud. However, it seemed as though most people
in our group didn't think much about their accomplishments and most of them couldn't even remember what they did the week before.
Every week we go through a busy schedule and time passes us
by. We might be working ten hour days when all of a sudden the weekend arrives.
Yet, we never stop to ask ourselves if the things we are doing are adding value
to our lives. Are the things keeping us busy throughout the week, things that
are getting us one step closer to accomplishing our goals or are they just
things that keep us busy?
Can you answer my question: What three things did you
accomplish last week? Can you come up with three things or can you only think
of one?
Eventually, I made this question a part of our meeting for
the next few years and it created a culture of self-reflection and positivity. Sometimes,
someone would say that they didn’t have any accomplishments but I would push
them to think of something, anything, and eventually something came to mind. It’s
crucial to develop a healthy habit of self-realization, especially when it
comes to your success. Yes, there are many things you could have done better
last week, but there are certain things you did well. Be proud of your
accomplishments.
Don't forget to share this blog so you can encourage others: family, co-workers, friends. Give them something to get motivated! You never know what they might be going through. A few words of encouragement can go a long way.
Don't forget to share this blog so you can encourage others: family, co-workers, friends. Give them something to get motivated! You never know what they might be going through. A few words of encouragement can go a long way.
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